Prepare a 6 cup plain or fluted metal tube mold by liberally buttering and sprinkling with sugar. Tap out any excess sugar.
Beat the egg whites until stiff. Continue to beat adding the powdered sugar gradually until egg whites form stiff peaks and are glossy. Fill metal mold pan with egg white mixture. Place mold in an ovenproof pan with sides that are at least 2 inches high. Pour in very hot water until it reaches about halfway up the sides of the mold pan. Do not be surprised if the mold pan floats up slightly. Bake in oven for about 15 minutes or until the top is brown and the meringue is firm to the touch. The meringue will most likely have risen over the top of the mold pan.
Remove pan from oven and remove tube pan from the water and let cool for a few minutes. The top will deflate back even with the top of the tube pan. Un-mold the meringue onto a plate and let cool completely. Can be made ahead and kept in the refrigerator.
For Pouring Custard
Scald the milk (heat over medium heat until almost boiling). Stir a couple of times to keep a skin from forming. Add vanilla bean or vanilla extract. Remove vanilla bean if using after 10 minutes.
In a mixing bowl beat egg yolks and ¼ cup granulated sugar together until the mixture is thick and a light, lemony yellow. Turn mixer down to low and whisk mixture into the scalded milk.
Transfer custard mixture to a heavy saucepan and cook over low heat, stirring constantly until you can coat the back of a spoon with it. Remove from heat and either pour into a chilled bowl or put pan into a bowl of iced water to stop the cooking and prevent curdling. Cool custard and then strain through a sieve to remove any lumps. Can be made ahead and stored in the fridge. Cover with plastic wrap and put directly on the surface if refrigerating to prevent a skin from forming.
For Caramel
Mix 1 cup granulated sugar with ½ cup water in a heavy saucepan. Put over medium high heat and stir just until the sugar is dissolved. Turn up the heat and cook over high heat until the sugar mixture turns an amber color. Do not stir once the mixture stars to boil or it will form crystals. Instead swirl the pan frequently. Remove from heat.
To Assemble
You can either serve this as one large floating island by pouring the custard into a deep dish, setting the meringue atop and then drizzling the caramel over the meringue or you can serve individually by cutting the meringue into wedges and serving on small dessert plates. Pour the custard sauce first, set the meringue slice atop the custard and then drizzle the caramel over. The caramel will harden as it cools making it hard to drizzle, but it can be softened by putting the pan back over heat or by heating briefly in the microwave.
To make the caramel decorations like in my photo, I drizzled some caramel onto a piece of parchment paper with the tines of a fork and let it cool for about ten minutes. Then, I stuck a piece into the back of the meringue.